How many times have we gleaned from our elders? How many times have they told us old cliches?


Its 1:00 in the morning and i finally get what my great-grandmother was trying to teach me at an earlier age and time in my life.  its so quiet, calm, peaceful and relxing where i am at this moment.. i swear i can hear her speaking to me…

Thank you BIG Momma! i hear you this time and this time not only do I hear you, but i also understand what you’re saying this time…

“KIKI, BABY, YOU GOTTA HAVE WATER HYDRANT LOVE. Or else you’ll have a long row to hoe in life!

In case you’re to young to know what “having a long row to hoe” means… it was a term that the elders and ancestors used while working in the cotton fields in the south. It simply meant you had a long days work ahead of you.



Its the year 2017 and my great-grandmother knew when i was a young girl that i loved foolishly and purely.  Loving the wrong people that way has gotten me into quite a bit of trouble along this life journey of mine.

I’ve always been told by the matriarchs in my family, that i loved to hard.  I NEVER truly understood what that meant.  As I’ve aged and experienced some of lifes most hurtful upsets and let downs. I’ve come to realize that maybe what i should have been being told was… KIKI YOU LOVE UNWORTHY  PEOPLE, People who weren’t made to recieve the  love you posess and they dont deserve your love.    i know you must be thinking thats TOTALLY wrong!  you should love everyone… true you should have a compassion for humans and we all know that “God” commanded us to love.

But how should we love?

At 45 years old,  i think that as of today, i FINALLY GOT IT BIG MOMMA.

Its perfectly fine for me to love people in my capacity.  Its perfectly fine to love people unconditionally.  But i have had to learn who and what deserves the different types of love that i have to give.


It is in my opinion that the only people worthy of recieving TRUE UNCONDITIONAL love are your babies, your toddlers, your adolescents,  and your teen children; that is it! NO one else should be loved UNCONDITIONALLY!


And i say that because babies didnt ask to come here and children  love innocently and unconditionally  but adults,  ANY ADULT that is toxic in your life in any way or that is detrimental to your being or your growth as a person as a human being, that ADULT does not deserve your unconditional love!. you may love them but it has to be with some sort of condition otherwise you are setting yourself up for a disastrous situation.

I GET IT BIG MOMMA… the love that flowed from my heart for people of all kinds, family, friends, and spouses…. has stopped flowing like a running faucet…it has now become a drip!.

because with water hydrant love you have the power  to stop and start the flow as well as the power to control the speed of the flow.

FOR ALL OF THOSE that I KNOW THAT IVE LOVED UNCONDITIONALLY….let this be your notice. see this drip in the pic above, thats the love that you ALL WILL NOW RECIEVE. its still love indeed however, it is up to you when and if it will ever flow like running water from a faucet  again.

and i have no problem with giving it to you this way… completely at a STANDSTILL!   NO FLOW AT ALL.



18 thoughts on “WATER HYDRANT LOVE”

  1. Omg..once again you have open another pathway for me in this life….now I know a better way for me to love people and things in life….I love this Water Hydrant Love….Wow…makes so much sense…..Thank you Beautiful Black Queen…keep blessing others the way you do….

    Just a small town girl name Marketta, thank you again..

    Honey what you say!!! You better speak, teach, preach all at the same time!!! Blessings abundance to you inside & out!!! Pure and point on!!! Yes I got it now will enforce it in my day to day life. Each one teach one. Shine Bright Diamond!!! Girl oh my my my ???

  3. Did u write this for me? Lol, I can relate as well as remember when u/we were learning, growing, & making mistakes. I never have met another person like U, U have a pure HEART, SO GENUINE! U will PROSPER YOUNG LADY! U ROCK KIKI! 🙂

  4. What a wonderful read, Cuz! I wish you much success in your life’s journey. I love you and am proud of your transformation into the conscious realm! Keep uplifting others with positive encouragement and energy!

  5. That wonderful moment when what we were told as youth finally takes root with us as an adult. It’s a great thing. Thank you for sharing your message with us KiKi. Namaste

  6. My Beautiful Sista! I am indeed at an atemporal display of one’s self afflictions…and my Love you’ve summed up this one’s own journey! Thank you, I Love You Kiki! QUEEN KEEP REIGNING!! NAMASTE’

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